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Type 3 and Type 6 at work

Type 3 · The Achiever and Type 6 · The Loyalist. No two types are right or wrong to work together. This page shows how you may meet in ten everyday moments at work, with one thing to try in each. Use it to agree how you work, not to judge each other.

By Daniel Yeo and Simyee Lim · 5 min read · Updated 22 Oct 2026

The two of you at a glance

Every person is different. Read these as tendencies to talk about, not as facts about anyone.

Type 3 · The Achiever

Energised by
Clear targets and progress people can see.
Drained by
Slow decisions and meetings that end with no outcome.
In their words
“Give me a clear target and room to run. Recognise the win when it comes.”

Type 6 · The Loyalist

Energised by
A team they can trust and a clear plan.
Drained by
Sudden changes with no reason given.
In their words
“Tell me early when plans change. Once I trust you, I'm all in.”

Ten everyday moments at work

Each line runs between two ways of working. The numbers show where each type often sits. Neither end is better.

A good mix of easy ground and places to meet halfway.

In sync: 5 momentsMeet halfway: 2 momentsTake care: 3 moments

Start here: Talk about these first. This is where the two of you are furthest apart: making decisions, risk and recognition.

01PlanningIn sync

Plan it allFigure it out as we go
36
Type 3
Plans backwards from the goal; cuts what doesn't help.
Type 6
Plans ahead, with a backup for what could go wrong.

Try this: You plan in a similar way. Every few weeks, check the plan still fits what is actually happening.

02MeetingsIn sync

Talk to thinkThink, then talk
36
Type 3
Keeps it moving and pushes for an outcome.
Type 6
Asks the questions others haven't thought of yet.

Try this: You talk and think in similar ways. Make sure the quieter people in the room still get a turn.

03Deadlines & paceIn sync

Fast and earlySteady, own pace
36
Type 3
Fast and efficient, often ahead of schedule.
Type 6
Starts early to stay clear of surprises.

Try this: You work at a similar pace. Build in one buffer day before anything important.

04Making decisionsTake care

Fast, on instinctSlow, thought through
36
Type 3
Decides fast to keep things moving; adjusts later.
Type 6
Weighs the risks and asks trusted people before committing.

Try this: Split the job: the faster one brings a first answer, the slower one gets a day to check it. Then decide together.

05RiskTake care

BoldCareful
36
Type 3
Takes calculated risks when they lead to results.
Type 6
Spots what could go wrong and plans for it.

Try this: Use each other: the bold one names the opportunity, the careful one names three things that could go wrong. Decide with both lists.

06Giving feedbackIn sync

Straight, in the momentGentle, in private
36
Type 3
Quick and practical, focused on what gets the result.
Type 6
Clear, but thinks first about how it will land.

Try this: Your styles match. Keep it regular, and say what's working, not only what to fix.

07Taking feedbackMeet halfway

Just tell me straightGo gently, give context
36
Type 3
Wants it quick and useful, ideally in private.
Type 6
Wants to know where they stand and what happens next.

Try this: Start with the reason, keep it short, and end with the next step.

08RecognitionTake care

Say it publiclyQuiet thanks
36
Type 3
Likes success seen, by the team and the boss.
Type 6
Steady trust and a private “glad you're on this.”

Try this: Ask once: a mention in front of the team, or a quiet word? Then stick to their answer.

09Under pressureMeet halfway

Push harderPull back
36
Type 3
Pushes harder, works longer, keeps it all moving.
Type 6
Gets watchful; checks and double-checks.

Try this: When it gets busy, say what you need, more space, or more check-ins.

10DisagreementIn sync

Face it head-onKeep the peace
36
Type 3
Picks the disagreements that affect the result.
Type 6
Questions it carefully; pushes back when trust is at stake.

Try this: You handle disagreement alike. Watch the shared blind spot: if you both avoid it, book a time; if you both push, pause first.

One step each

If you’re the Type 3
Share the credit out loud in your next team meeting. And ask yourself once this week: is this goal mine, or just impressive?
If you’re the Type 6
Write down your biggest worry, then one thing you'll do about it. Make one decision this week without checking it twice.

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Questions people ask

Do Type 3 and Type 6 work well together?

No pair is right or wrong to work together. In the ten moments above, a Type 3 and a Type 6 are in sync in 5 moments, meet halfway in 2 moments and are marked “take care” in 3 moments. That shows you what to agree on first, not how well you will work together.

What helps a Type 3 and a Type 6 do their best work?

A Type 3 is often energised by clear targets and progress people can see. A Type 6 is often energised by a team they can trust and a clear plan.

Where do Type 3 and Type 6 differ most at work?

The biggest gaps are often in: making decisions, risk and recognition. Pick one and agree together how you'll handle it, using the “Try this” line.

My colleague hasn’t taken the test. What now?

You can pick the type you think fits them in the X-Map for Work and treat it as a guess. Better still, invite them to take the free work test (5–8 minutes) and talk about it together.

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