36 short statements about who you are. Answer as you really are in everyday life — especially with the people closest to you — not as you'd like to be. There are no right answers.
A first read — a mirror, not a label. Your partner can take it too, and you can compare.
Answer all four to continue.
In love, you
Once your partner can see it, they stop taking your reactions personally.
You also This side often shows when you feel safe and close.
The energy you use least. A partner who leads with it may need what you rarely think to give. What makes them feel loved:
Everyone has all nine. Read your top three — the one that stings a little is often the right one.
9Hearts Love Manual
3 quick wins for this week, how you argue and make up, words that land, and a “How to love me” card to share. A 10-minute read, ready the moment you pay.
When you both have a read, you'll see your X-Map — where you naturally meet, and where you predictably miss each other.