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FIRST-DATE NOTE · BEFORE THE INTRODUCTION
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Client A meets Client C

6Her · Type 6 · The Loyalist
7Him · Type 7 · The Enthusiast
First date: Saturday afternoon
IN ONE LINE
She relaxes with a clear plan. He comes alive with something new. Give her the plan — and him the fun inside it.
TELL HER — ABOUT HIM
Puts him at ease: energy, laughter, something new to talk about.
He may talk fast, jump between topics or suggest something on the spot. That’s enthusiasm — not a lack of seriousness.
Ask him: “What’s the best trip you’ve ever taken?”
Avoid: a long list of serious questions on date one.
TELL HIM — ABOUT HER
Puts her at ease: being on time, a confirmed plan, doing what you say.
She may ask careful questions and take a while to warm up. That’s how she builds trust — not doubt.
Ask her: “Who are the people you can always count on?”
Avoid: last-minute changes, or playing it cool.
A DATE THAT SUITS BOTH
Somewhere new for him, with a clear plan for her: a café neither has tried, at a time she agreed in advance, with an easy walk after if it’s going well. He confirms the plan the day before.
WHERE THEY’LL CLICK
Both enjoy company and conversation. Time together comes easily — neither needs much space early on. She brings warmth and loyalty; he brings fun and ideas.
WHERE TO TAKE CARE
She wants reassurance; he wants room. She plans for what could go wrong; he keeps options open. A late reply or a changed plan will feel bigger to her than he expects.
AFTER THE DATE — YOUR CALL WITH EACH
Ask her: “Did he feel straightforward with you?” If she’s unsure, remind her he warms up through fun, not through answers.
Ask him: “What did you enjoy most?” Then: “If you’d like to see her again, set the next plan and confirm it — it matters to her.”
From both test results. Typical patterns — real people vary. No type is ever a reason to reject a match. 9Hearts · by Business Enneagram Asia